Archive | April, 2010

Living with Ambiguity, Part 3,233

A few weeks ago, on a Thursday, we were getting to leave for vacation. It was a rush of a day. I picked up fast food for dinner, and after we ate husband J. left for the urgent care with daughter F., whose fever seemed to indicate yet another ear infection. Better get the antibiotics before we go! we thought. Son H. was ready for his potty time. He disappeared into the bathroom with a newspaper and a cigar – (...Read More)

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Charm School This is Not

There are times where one must leave the hubby in charge.  But, inevitably that means that some learned behavior is going to have to be eradicated.  Spicy Girls love of Farmville was the result of an afternoon with Daddy when Mommy went to get a mani-pedi.  Her ability to sing the latest Lady Gaga tune came after a Saturday morning drive with Daddy listening to the latest pop music count down in between errands.   These may not seem like (...Read More)

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Packing My Bags for Mommy Prison

I got to the gate safely, thankful that my taxi driver didn’t end up being a psychopath killer since he wore fingerless gloves. I don’t trust anyone, besides Madonna, who wears fingerless gloves (and only her during the Lucky Star period.) Reflexively, I checked my smartphone, which I do every 4.5 seconds exactly when not actively moving. In my inbox, was an email from The Husband sent just minutes ago. A sweet email describing how Elise and Luke were playing, (...Read More)

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Smart Kid, But He’s Failing Recess

Poor Milo. He’s a sweet kid (often). He’s a bright kid (when he’s not calling himself dumb). A well-liked kid (though he possesses the social skills of a mud turtle). But he cannot find anyone to consistently play with at recess. He started out this year—first grade—largely alone. The two boys he’d gravitated to in Kindergarten were in different classrooms, which, in elementary school terms, may as well be other galaxies. Kids would say hi to Milo, ask him to (...Read More)

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Did You Hear the One About…

One of the times that I find the Ladybug to be at her sweetest is when I first wake her up in the morning.  Flush from sleep, she still embodies just the slightest trace of the baby she once was, orienting herself, yawning wide, sighing contentedly and presenting me with a toothy grin.  Some mornings I rub her back to get her moving, maybe tickle her toes or kiss her fingers, but it is all part of what I find (...Read More)

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